See also
Husband:
Vinod MUBAYI
Wife:
Joan FELDMAN (1943-2009)
Children:
Name:
Vinod MUBAYI
Sex:
Male
Father:
-
Mother:
-
Name:
Joan FELDMAN
Sex:
Female
Father:
Mother:
Birth:
Oct 22, 1943
Philadelphia, PA
Death:
Sep 11, 2009 (age 65)
Maryland
Name:
Suneela MUBAYI
Sex:
Male
Joan Feldman, daughter of Rose Feldman and the late Cyrus Feldman,
died peacefully in Maryland on Sept. 11, 2009, of cancer.
Joan was born in 1943 in Philadelphia, Pa. In 1944, after having been
drafted into the Army and completing his basic training, Cyrus was
sent to Oak Ridge, Tenn., to work on the Manhattan Project because of
his expertise as an analytical chemist. In April of 1945, when the
families of Manhattan Project workers were allowed to come to Oak
Ridge, Rose and Joan rejoined Cy there. Like many of the people sent
to Oak Ridge to work on the Manhattan Project, Cy and his growing
family fell in love with East Tennessee and remained in Oak Ridge for
many years.
While growing up, Joan attended Cedar Hill Elementary School,
Jefferson Junior High School, and Oak Ridge High School; she then went
on to attend Brandeis University in Boston, where she received a
degree in fine arts. It was there that she met her future husband,
Vinod Mubayi. The two married in a traditional Indian wedding in New
Delhi in 1969 and later moved to Bombay, where they lived for several
years.
Having learned Hindi and Bengali before she moved to India, Joan
participated fully in the cultural life of Bombay, attending Indian
classical music programs, watching her favorite Bollywood movies of
the 1940s and 1950s, and writing for leading magazines and newspapers
on a number of cultural topics.
As a young woman, Joan was known not only for her many talents, but
for her beauty, her sharp wit, and her delightful and contagious
laugh. Early in her life, she demonstrated her talent as an artist,
musician, and linguist. As an artist, she was greatly influenced by
the German Expressionist movement, epitomized by the artist Kathe
Kollwitz, and by the cultural icons of the Weimar era such as Bertolt
Brecht in literature and drama; Peter Lorre and Marlene Dietrich in
film; and Kurt Weill and Hans Eisler in music. Her paintings and
drawings were displayed at several art shows in New York City in the
late 1970s and early 1980s, and she also designed several book jackets
for the Oxford University Press while living in India. She was an
accomplished pianist, and played the flute in the Oak Ridge Symphony
Orchestra. She was fluent in Hindi, Bengali, French, and German.
Unfortunately, Joan suffered a mental breakdown in 1973 while she and
her husband were living in India. The couple returned to the U.S. in
late 1974, where Joan struggled with mental health problems for much
of her life. During the decade following her initial breakdown, Joan
periodically recovered well enough to practice her art, but in later
years was unable to do so.
Joan was diagnosed with cancer in 2004, but she refused treatment
despite the urging of her family. Throughout her adult life, but
particularly during her final years, she was loved by all of her
various caregivers for her delightful personality and her mischievous
sense of humor -- traits that stayed with her until the end.
Joan is survived by her child, Suneel of New York; her former husband,
Vinod, who has remained devoted to Joan throughout the years and will
always be a beloved member of the family; her mother, Rose Feldman, of
Boston; brothers, Henry of Boston, Ben of New York, and Robert, of
Tokyo; and her sister, Alice, of Oak Ridge. Her father, Cyrus Feldman,
died in 1990.